Tuesday, January 12, 2016

Trying to Thaw Out

When I was a college student it felt like Christmas break was very short, too short.  However, as it turns out Utah State grants their students an astonishing 3 weeks of reprieve from their studies.  When this was called to our attention Justin and I decided that this was clearly an invitation for us to be out taking a road trip.  We determined that our winter road trips to the desert last year went so well that we should give that another go.  We booked ourselves in for a conservative three days in the timeshare in Tucson.

Naturally, the moment we got outside of the cancellation time frame disaster struck and we found ourselves shelling out money hand over fist to keep our cars running.  There's nothing quite as irritating as car repairs.  I don't know if others feel this way, but when I've already dumped a ton of money into acquiring a vehicle, and operating the vehicle, and insuring the vehicle and conducting routine maintenance on the vehicle, having to dump even more into fixing it just feels like an injustice.  That being said, the trip was booked, some money was already paid, and we decided that we might as well still take this vacation.  Besides, we were very excited about seeing Saguaro National Park.

The first leg of our trip was a short drive from Orem to Las Vegas, well Henderson to be more specific.  We made pretty good time, got checked into our hotel and enjoyed cruising through the halls with Vivian to get her some exercise after the long car ride, and to wear her down a little before bed.  She seemed exhausted when we finally called it a night.  I was therefore somewhat surprised when she didn't sleep well that night, and woke up several times crying and upset.  The next morning she seemed fine, all be it a little tired.  We got packed up and headed downstairs for breakfast.  Standing in the breakfast area with my baby I was completely caught off-guard when she suddenly started vomiting all over the floor, and of course in her alarm over the situation could not be persuaded to stand still and just ralph in one area, but rather deposited three or four pools of barf on the floor.  It was quite upsetting for both of us.  Probably for the hotel staff that acted as though it was a no big deal as well.  After that she seemed her usual self, and we stupidly allowed her to consume a few Cheerios before we got on the road.

Vivian promptly fell asleep in the back of the car, and we had driven for a couple of hours when we heard her throwing up in her carseat.  Justin pulled over, we did some wetwipe cleaning (wetwipes are one of the greatest inventions of all time), and were able to continue on our way (twice as grateful for the windfall of having a rental car with leather seats).  This time I was seated next to her armed with a small styrofoam bowl, that was unfortunately put to use before we were able to find a gas station to stop at and purchase ziplock baggies to replace the styrofoam bowl.  We used one of those, and for the most part we spent the day in the back of the car with her and I dozing, and me rationing her little sips of water.  By the time we arrived in Tucson I was wondering if we should have
taken this trip after all.  Lucky for us, once she was released from the car she seemed to be recovered.

Our first morning in Tucson Vivian woke up acting like she was 100%.  We decided to head straight to the National Park and start the day off with a scenic drive, and a small ecology walk/hike.

 After that we read about a four and a half mile hike that held particular appeal to us because you get to see a Cristate cactus, which is actually a Saguaro cactus with a genetic mutation that occurs in approximately one in 50,000 cacti.  We were very excited about this opportunity.  So, despite the rain clouds overhead, we blasted up the trail, ignoring the sign-in sheet for visitors hiking in the "backcountry."

To our delight, we did in fact see a Cristate cactus, and it was just as spectacular as one might suspect.

We were thrilled.  After snapping way too many pictures we continued down the trail for some distance when Justin noticed that Vivian was missing a shoe.  We had a small disagreement about who should go back for the shoe, but Justin won and said that it should be him because he is faster.  He handed me the baby carrier and darted back down the trail.  I struggled along with the baby carrier for a bit, but had to stop twice to make adjustments because it was adjusted to Justin's frame and not mine.  When I finally got it to where it was relatively comfortable I could see Justin jogging along the trail towards us a little ways away, and I figured he'd catch back up in just a few minutes.  He dropped from sight for a second, I figured the trail took a dip, and I forged ahead.
A picture I stopped to snap along the way
Probably half a mile down the trail Justin still hadn't caught up, and I knew something wasn't right.   Vivian and I turned back to find him. We backtracked quite a ways before we found him limping along at a turtle's pace.  He had some crazy story about running, falling, twisting his ankle, screaming in pain, a snapping noise, and a wave of nausea as he laid in the dirt writhing around in pain before he managed to pull himself together, get back on his feet and start hobbling along down the trail again.

Vivian obviously had to stay on my back for the duration of the hike, so I stopped again to make a few adjustments, and find a suitable walking stick for Justin to help him along.
We had at least two more miles still to go, it was threatening rain, and none of us were equipped to deal with being soaked in 50 degree weather.
The rain clouds looming overhead
Unfortunately we were a pretty slow moving little party.  All the way out Justin would hike behind me making grunting and groaning noises, and when I would turn to ask him how things were going back there he would say something like "I'm fine. It's okay." He delivered these statements in tone that would lead an eavesdropper to believe that it was strange of me to be asking.  A mile or so from the car we started to hear a pack of coyotes, and while they didn't sound terribly close, it's still an unnerving sound when you're in a precarious situation.  The coyotes, sprinkling rain, and a bunch of javelina tracks kept us moving at the fastest pace we could manage (which was not particularly speedy).  We were both ready to be done a long time before we reached the car, and it was a relief to finally arrive back at the trailhead.

On the way back to visitor's center, where incidentally we actually saw a wild javelina, I told Justin that perhaps we should visit an urgent care.
The trip from the car to the sign convinced him that maybe a visit to urgent care was in order.
Predictably he resisted at first, but the pain in his ankle won out and he finally agreed that it might not be a bad idea.  A couple of hours later he was crutching his way out of an urgent care with one of those huge boots on his foot and an x-ray copy of his fractured ankle.  Immediately on return to the timeshare he abandoned the crutches, stripped off the boot and proceeded to limp about doing all sorts of things that he shouldn't have been doing on a broken ankle.

The next morning we woke up late, and had to revisit our plans for the day.  The doctor had repeatedly told him he should spend the day on the couch with his foot elevated.  He never even momentarily took that into consideration.
Prepping for another exciting outing
We had wanted to visit the west district of Saguaro National Park for some morning hiking, visit the Desert Wilderness museum, and tour Biosphere 2.  The hike was clearly out, and Biosphere 2 was eliminated once we learned about the 150+ stairs that are part of the tour, but there was still the desert museum and a scenic drive through the west side of the park.  We were in no rush getting out the door, and Justin reassured me that the museum would be brief, and only cost about $5/person leaving us with money and time to do something else afterwards.  I have no idea where he got this information.  The museum cost $20/person and turned out to be a massive all day affair, with over 2 miles of dirt trails.  After a couple of hours and at least a mile of crutching about Justin looked exhausted, and his exhaustion turned to irritation when he discovered that the snack building had just closed.  The fact that we got to see a live beaver there wasn't even enough to end his rant about the short hours of the snack station.
Although I've been to lots of zoos that claim to have a beaver in residence, this was the first time I've actually seen one.
The museum was actually very cool, we're glad we did it, but I'm not sure that Justin would recommend it to anyone on crutches, and certainly not something to do without bringing along a good supply of snacks.
Near the closed snack station

At the desert tortoise exhibit

Just a nice shot of that absurd little mustache
He sort of collapsed into the passenger seat of the car, and uncharacteristically refused to exit the car again for any of the scenic overlooks and such when we did the scenic drive through the national park before heading back.
Just a little something for Meredith that we spotted on the drive back to the timeshare.
The next morning Justin and Vivian sat in the car while I made tons of trips back and forth from our room on the second floor with all of our stuff since Justin wasn't able to help with the loading.  It took forever, but finally we were on our way.  We drove all day and spent the night in a hotel in La Verkin, UT.  The next morning I was the one throwing up at the hotel, and all the way home.  It's not the greatest way to end a trip, and drill the next day was kind of a trying experience, but now we're all seemingly healthy again and trying to figure out a way to budget for another little vacation some time soon.

Tuesday, October 20, 2015

It's Basically on the Way...

Justin and I decided that we needed a weekend trip.  Okay, we always think we need to take a weekend trip somewhere, but since Justin has gone back to school our travels have been drastically reduced.  We already had a trip to Boise planned last weekend for the baby blessing of our new niece, Caroline, but Justin said that we should leave right after school on Thursday (no classes on Friday, for Columbus Day) and drive to Yellowstone since that's "basically on the way."  It's not really even close to on the way, but since when has that stopped us?  We planned on leaving Thursday afternoon, but then in a rare moment of academic irresponsibility Justin decided to blow off all of his classes for the day and we left late that morning so that we could drive the longer "more scenic route."

For the record, very little of this drive that took us through nowhere Wyoming would be described as particularly scenic.  This became apparent very early on, and our first inclination was to just blast through all of it and get to the part where we would be driving through The Grand Tetons.  However, we have a little passenger that still requires periodic reprieves from the thrill of the open road.  We made our first diaper changing stop at Fossil Butte National Monument.  It's not a super exciting place, but the visitor's center was interesting, and the National Park Service is good about always having changing tables and clean restrooms, so we saw no reason not to stop.
Always a huge fan of Dad.

An impressive display of fish fossils from the area.

My people with the fish fossils.

Vivian waving to me, as though she expected that she and her Dad would just be continuing this vacation without me.

And of course, all of us with the sign.
We didn't spend too much time there, since we realized this alternate route was also significantly longer, and we were burning daylight.  We didn't stop again until we arrived at the Grand Tetons National Park visitor's center 30 minutes after they closed.  Lucky for us, the restrooms remain open, so we still got to take a little break from all the driving.  

Everyone is thrilled to be out of the car for a bit.
We made one more stop at a lake along the way just to snap a few shots, since it was really beautiful with the sun setting in the background. 
Lake Jackson
From there we drove through Yellowstone out the West entrance.  The drive was very uneventful up until the last 10 miles or so, when we found ourselves behind a driver that appeared to bit of a novice to the whole concept of using brights.  His constant flipping of them on and off was not only entirely unnecessary, but so rapid that if we'd had an epileptic in the car he probably would have induced a seizure.  We eventually got to somewhere where we could pull alongside him, and ascertain that he appeared to be a foreigner.  So maybe the brights really were a whole new concept.  That's definitely how it seemed.  Regardless, we checked into the timeshare at West Yellowstone, and started making dinner while Vivian literally ran from one end of the place to the other with her hands above her head shrieking in open celebration about being released from the confines of her carseat.  Justin and I found ourselves just standing there watching, wondering how it is that we've created this little person.  In all seriousness, I love this stage she's in right now.  It's definitely one that keeps us busy, and our house looking perpetually trashed, but it's super fun too. 

The next morning Vivian had me awake much earlier than I wanted to be awake, but since I was awake we were able to make an early checkout and get into Yellowstone at a decent hour.  We decided to spend the day on the north end of the park, since that's the end that neither of us have ever seen.  
Our first stop of the morning at this place with hot springs.  
We stopped at a spot, that we still have no idea what it was actually called.  It was full of hot springs.  We ran into an elderly couple there.  The wife stopped to chat with us for a second.  She asked us how hot we thought the water is in that spot.  We told her that according to some of our reading, the water in the area is extremely hot.  She seemed surprised and then admitted to us that she had already TOUCHED the water to test the temperature.  Honestly, I think Justin and I just stared at her in silence for a second, because she hastily added that it was clear over on the edge, and that it hadn't really seemed all that hot.  Who decides to stick their finger in water that appears to be boiling in places, just to see if it's really THAT hot?  She does.  That's who.  It was so weird.  

Our next stop was Gibbon Falls.
She's been doing this ridiculous cheesy grin lately.

The falls were small, pretty, but the place was packed.  UEA weekend, it was all people from Utah.
Next we continued on to Porcelain Loop, part of the Norris Geyser Basin.

On the banks of a little pond at the end of the loop.
Then we decided to take a mile and a half loop around the Norris Geyser Basin.  It turned out to be way less interesting than we had hoped.  It was good to just be outside, and the further away from the trailhead we got the fewer people we encountered, so it was worth the walk.

She had this astonished reaction to basically every hot springs we saw.

Some of the Norris Geyser Basin
By the time we were done there it was lunch.  We took a break to eat at the far end of the park, and then spent the rest of the afternoon driving around trying to spot some interesting wildlife.  We saw a lot of Bison, a bunch of Elk, and actually spotted either a wolf or a coyote stalking a pack of buffalo.  It looked like a wolf, but it's size was more like a coyote, so who knows.  Eventually we realized that our time was ticking away quickly.  We got on the road back towards Grand Tetons National Park, but we stopped a couple of times along the way.  First for Tower Falls. 
It was hard to get a good picture of this one.
Next we stopped at the Grand Canyon of Yellowstone.
Her cheeks just finally got too heavy.

The Upper Falls
Next we visited the Lower Falls.

After that we really had to get going.  We made one final stop at the sign at the edge of park, just as our sunlight was starting to slip away. 
The temperature was already dropping.
We started our long drive to our hotel in Driggs, Idaho, about 20 miles west of Jackson, Wyoming.  By the time we got to Grand Tetons it was dark, and we really weren't expecting to get caught in a herd of stampeding buffalo, but that is what happened.  I didn't know that buffalo could even run that fast, but in the dark they just initially just looked like shadows flitting across the road.  Justin was driving, although usually I am the night time driver.  I'm grateful it was him that night.  He hit the brakes as soon as he realized what was happening and swerved the car to avoid a collision with crossing buffalo.  The car finally stopped inches from a massive buffalo that had briefly stopped to stare at our car careening towards it.  I was looking down when Justin hit the brakes, and by the time I looked up the buffalo was already gone, but I did look up in time to see another buffalo running full speed at the passenger side door.  I have no idea how he managed to get around us without hitting the car, but he did.  I almost had a heart attack in that brief moment as I thought we were going to t-boned by a massive charging buffalo of all things.  We sat there for a few very tense moments as we continued to watch buffalo streaming out of the woods and bolting across the street in front of us and behind us.  We wonder if they were being hunted by the way they seemed to be running in a dead panic.  One of them in front of us stumbled, fell down, and was back on his feet still running before it even seemed possible.  A minute later they were gone, and we continued on our way, feeling a bit shaken by the incident.  

By the time we arrived at our hotel we decided that despite our plans to return to Grand Tetons the next day to do some exploring before we left for Boise, that we really should just save that for another trip.  We left for Boise the next morning.  The good news is that we had a great time with the family.  We arrived in time to spend a little time visiting baby Caroline and her parents, get lost in a corn maze that basically turned into a giant mud pit in the pouring rain, and now we still have all of Grand Tetons left to explore another day.  We're looking forward to that day.

Saturday, October 10, 2015

The Drug Guy

A few weeks ago, on the first day of school to be exact, we discovered that number two was on it's way.  We were happy...but, from the beginning it just didn't seem quite right to me.  I wasn't sick enough, I wasn't tired enough, and it just didn't feel like I was going to have another baby.  Even when I started looking fatter, and getting sicker, I was still feeling a bit uneasy about the whole thing.  Turns out, that unfortunately, I was right.  Our first ultrasound was earlier this week, and there was no heartbeat.  The fetus stopped developing three weeks earlier.  We weren't crushed, or overly distraught.  A little disappointed, sure, but then we look out our little Vivian and it's hard to not feel like we're already very blessed.  Neither of us believe that she'll be our last.  I think the doctor was a little surprised by our rather unemotional response to the news, but I did cry the next night when I was still throwing up from morning sickness while my husband was trying to finish homework, watch the baby, and make dinner.  It seemed like such a ripoff to still be sick for no reason.  The upside is that it made me look forward to the D and C surgery to remove the undeveloped fetus the next day since the doctor had reassured me that would put a final end to the morning sickness.

The next day I found myself chilling in a hospital room with an IV waiting for my doctor to arrive.  Vivian was with my mother-in-law, and Justin was at school (he had a presentation for one of his classes that was worth a massive percentage of his grade, so we felt it best that he just show up when he was done), so it was just the nurse and I when the anesthesiologist made his appearance.  He sat down and without looking at me asked in a surprisingly chipper tone of voice if we were doing this procedure for a pregnancy.  I saw the nurse out of the corner of my eye freeze, and the anesthesiologist glanced her way and immediately sobered his tone and made some mumbling apology about not meaning to be insensitive.  I just wanted to know why else you would have this procedure done.  The doctor seemed relieved to see that I wasn't disturbed by his initial abruptness.  He continued down a little check list of questions like "have you ever had general anesthesia before?" and "Did you have any problems with that?" Then he queried in a very casual tone "are you okay getting a blood transfusion?"  I blame it on the delivery, and the way that it was worded, but for some reason I was left with the distinct impression that this wasn't a "if you need one are you okay with it?" but, more a "you're getting one, is that a problem?"  I could feel my eyes getting huge, and I was thinking to myself "why the heck did nobody mention this sooner," but instead I heard myself saying "well, I guess.  I would rather not die."  He reassured me that it's rarely necessary, and moved on to tell me that I would have a breathing tube shoved down my throat and I might wake up with a sore throat, fat lip, and chipped teeth.  Again, I felt my face assuming a look of horror, and when he looked up at me, he first laughed at me, and then told me that a sore throat was almost a given, the fat lip had happened to him on occasion, but that he has never chipped a tooth.

I have a feeling that this guy in general does better with the patients when they're passed out.  The whole way into the operating room he was telling me how he was hoping this procedure would go quickly since he was planning on going camping with his boys after work.  I'm glad he was just in charge of the drugs.  All the same, things went well, thankfully the morning sickness is all but gone, and we're getting back to normal.  When you read this don't feel bad for us.  We are happy, we are together, and we are very, very blessed, and super grateful for TriCare.  

Tuesday, July 28, 2015

Utah, Arizona, New Mexico, Colorado Roadtrip

It has been almost two years since Justin and I took our three-week long road trip, and we decided that this year we wanted to do a big road trip again.  Although Vivian is a very good sport about this sort of thing, we doubt that she would put up with three weeks, and Justin didn’t have the leave for that anyway.  We settled on 10 days, and planned things out.

We left on a Thursday.  The plan was to leave as soon as Justin got released from work.  We always say that’s what we’re going to do, and for some reason we still believe ourselves when we say this.  We left hours after he got home.  We were scheduled to drive all the way to Mesa Verde National Park in Colorado and camp there for the night.  We made it to Moab and decided that our plan only worked had we left on time.  We agreed that we would find a hotel for the evening.  As usual, our preference is Best Westerns since we’re part of their rewards program.  We found one in the GPS that said it was located in Monticello, Utah, and when I called, the price was shockingly low.  I did think it was weird that the hotel desk clerk said that she didn’t need my rewards number for the reservation, but whatever.  The GPS then routed us to an address in Blanding, where we were unable to find the hotel.  We finally had to call back for instructions, which is when we were made aware that it wasn’t a Best Western.  Maybe it was a couple of decades ago.  It was old, and looked very suspect, and we then felt that the price was maybe a little stiff for what we were getting.  It was late though, and we were too tired to make an issue of it.  We left all our bags in the car, for fear of bringing home bugs.  However, it turned out to be pretty clean, and the bed was comfy.  I’ve definitely stayed in worse.

The next morning we got up early and drove the rest of the way to Mesa Verde National Park.  When we arrived Justin went straight into the visitor’s center to get tickets, (this park requires tickets to see the ruins) while I addressed a blowout diaper.  Half an hour later I emerged from the bathroom with no wipes, and a baby who had just been bathed in the sink of a public restroom.   Thank goodness for the family bathrooms, so at least we were spared having to conduct the bath in front of strangers.  We had packed a massive amount of wipes too, so I was able to refill the diaper bag supply.  Proof that we are learning. 

Our first tour started almost right away.  We had just enough time to drive to the trailhead and eat lunch.  The tour of Balcony House was supposed to be quite strenuous, and an hour in length.  I pretty much hated our tour guide.  He yammered on about all the things he didn’t know for almost an hour and a half.  The ruins were interesting, he was not.  We did not find the tour to be exceptionally strenuous, although there were several ladders and tight squeezes, so I imagine that’s how it got that designation.  
Listening to the ranger talk about how tough the hike will be.  It felt like everyone there took a turn staring at Justin and Vivian and whispering in a stage voice that they weren't sure that he was going to make it with her.

The longest of the ladders.  They said it was 3 stories high, it didn't really feel that high.

Trying to keep Vivian happy in the Balcony House while the guide droned on and on about nothing.

A small tunnel at the end.  She loved it.

Getting strapped back on her dad for the ascent back up to the trailhead.

The climb back out
We had quite a break between our two tours, and we had been hoping to use that time to do the self-guided tour of Spruce Treehouse.  It’s half a mile in length, and only something like 150 feet descent/ascent.  There should have easily been time to do it, but because our first tour guide was so enamored with his own voice, we were left with very little time.  The recommended time allotment is about an hour, we completed the entire thing in 15 minutes.  As it turns out, this is NOT something we would recommend.  The return hike to the parking lot was pretty steep, and we ended up back at the top soaked in sweat where Justin asked someone to take our picture, as we stood there panting.  That being said, we did see the ruins.  We were not able to scrutinize them, but we were able to make it to our next tour with time to spare.
Spruce Treehouse

A quick picture at the bottom

Trying not to look to out of breath for the photo, but really I could barely even speak to the guy who took this photo for us when I handed him the camera.
The tour guide for Cliff Palace was much better, he kept us to an hour, and although I was not terribly interested in most of the speculative information that these guides share as absolute fact, he still had a better delivery than the first guide.

Cliff Palace
As soon as the Cliff Palace tour ended we loaded back into the car and made the hour or so drive to the four corners monument.  We had only been in the parking lot a moment or two when Justin attempted to slam his own head in the car door.  I have no idea how one even attempts such a thing, but it looked very painful.  There was a small amount of blood, some minor concerns about a concussion, and words that are better left unrepeated.  He is fine.  We waited in line for 45 minutes to take pictures standing in four states at one time.

It turns out that metal thing we're sitting on was blazing hot, so we couldn't get a picture of Vivian by herself.
We left the four corners monument and continued on through the Indian reservation to Canyon De Chelly National Monument, where we planned on camping for the night.  We had read that this canyon is extraordinarily beautiful, and incredibly underrated.  The drive there took forever, and I can honestly say that the canyon is just as beautiful as advertised, so long as you can overlook the neighborhoods of shacks and trailers that are set up throughout the park.   Since the land is Indian land, there are still Indians living within the monument, and it appears that many of them are even residing within the campground.  We pulled into a trailer park…I mean, campground, that was complete with stray dogs and long-term RV residents.  We pulled in, and we pulled back out.  We stopped at three overlooks on our way back out.  We didn’t get out of our car at the first one because of the diseased stray dog that started chasing the car through the parking lot.  We left and decided that although it was already late, and it would take hours more of driving, that we would leave the reservation and find ourselves a hotel for the night.  This time we were able to find an authentic Best Western in Eager, Arizona, and we arrived around midnight.

Canyon De Chelly
We woke up much earlier than I would have liked the next day, since Vivian had slept the whole way into Eager the night before.  We had a long driving day ahead of us anyway, so it was kind of nice to have an early start, and a headstart since we had already covered so much ground the previous night.  We left Arizona and began our drive through New Mexico, the Land of Enchantment.  I don’t know that I was feeling particularly enchanted, although the drive was beautiful, but when we arrived in Silver City, NM, we were definitely not enchanted with officer Torrez, as he wrote me out a speeding ticket.  I literally went the speed limit or under all day, except for maybe 10 seconds as I pulled out from a roadside historic marker in front of Officer Torrez.  While I was being issued the ticket, Justin’s behavior earned him the nickname “deputy” for the rest of the day.  

The drive through Arizona and New Mexico was beautiful, although this doesn't do it justice.
 We finally arrived at our destination, Rockhound State Park, NM.   A sign outside said that we could set up camp in any available spot, but were only allowed to spend one night in any site marked as a “reservation site.”  We found an open site that looked ideal, and although it said that it was a reservation site, we figured that if we had to, we could quickly move camp the next morning.  Almost immediately, we noticed that the park in general seemed to be exceptionally buggy.  The prickly pear cactuses were producing fruit and there had to have been millions of fruit flies throughout the park.  They swarmed us.  They were undeterred by our bug repellant, and they loved Vivian the most.  She looked miserable.  Justin was extremely bothered by the number of wasps in our site, and I was getting bitten by the horseflies and gnats, which were also undeterred by bug repellant.  All the same, we were there, so we decided to get busy setting up camp.  
A view of the campground.
It didn’t take us long to discover that one of our tent poles was broken.  The flexible string inside had snapped.  After a discussion about whether or not we should return to the nearest town, Deming, NM to look for a new pole, or tent at the Wal-Mart there, we determined that the pole could actually still be used, if we each took an end and kept it pushed together tightly long enough to get it into place.  Thankfully that worked.  We had just finished setting everything up, and were working on getting a snack.  A man pulled up and informed us that he had a reservation for our site.  He was very nice about it though, and said he’d go talk to the campground host to see how this worked.  Justin went down there too to see if we would need to move.  Thankfully, the man was not interested in that particular site and agreed to take another site.  The campground host told Justin that the sign was outdated but that we could stay there two nights since no one else had a reservation.  So…why the sign is still there we don’t know.   Justin returned to our camp to discover that we were surrounded by wasps because they were busy building a nest in the cover above our picnic table.   We decided that we would move the next day.  

We finished eating and struck out on a little rockhounding  expedition.  There was a display set up on the opposite side of the park that showed what rocks can be found in the park.  Each person is allowed to pack away 15lbs. of rocks.  Since Justin and I really don’t know what we’re doing we decided that our first order of business would be to consult with said display.  We walked across the park, studied the display, learned everything it had to teach us, which really wasn’t much, and started back to our side of the park, to a trail where we could allegedly find some of these rocks.  It was a short walk, but by the time we arrived back at our campsite it was clear that a storm was brewing and we decided to delay the rockhounding and move straight into dinner.  We had to eat dinner in shifts so that one of us could hold Vivian and keep her from chewing on gravel, or picking up a red ant and mangling it between her fingers before she dropped it on the ground to writhe around in a distorted heap.   By the time dinner was over she wasn’t acting herself, and as it turned out she was running a slight fever (thankfully I keep the thermometer in my diaper bag).  We decided to drive into town to get her some Motrin, and more ice for the cooler.  By the time we got back it was after dark, and we were exhausted.  The Motrin kicked in and Vivian showed no interest in sleeping, but after some time we were finally able to settle her down and we all got to sleep much, much later than we had planned.

The next day was Sunday, and we had hoped to attend church in Deming.  However, we woke up late after the previous night, and we woke up soaking wet.  A big rainstorm had swept through the night before and Justin had slept all night with one of our tent windows open because he was “burning up.”  Justin insisted that the tent roof had leaked, but I convinced him that the culprit was actually his open window.  We spent all morning emptying the tent, drying out the contents, and moving everything to a new campsite.  At that point, we felt that nothing more could go wrong on this portion of the trip.  We reported to the visitor’s center (that had weirdly short hours) for a very informative lesson from the campground host, who as it turns out also mans the visitor’s center, on how to find worthwhile rocks in the park.  We also asked her about how to spot a Persian Ibex.  There is a large herd of them that live in the nearby Florida mountain range.  She told us that afternoons in the neighboring Spring Canyon are as good a time as any to see them, so we decided to go there to look for one.  When we got out of the car Vivian fell asleep, and we decided to sit in our picnic area for a while and see if we could spot one in the surrounding hills.  Hours later, still nothing, but Vivian had woken up with another fever.  Another round of Motrin and she bounced back quickly.  We decided to take a short easy hike a little ways up the canyon, still hoping to see an Ibex.  The hike was fun, but our efforts to observe a wild Persian Ibex failed.  
A huge moth we came across on our hike.

The Florida mountain range that is allegedly home to a herd of Iranian Ibex, gifted to the US by the Iranians back in the '70's. 
We returned to Rockhound State Park to take a stroll down a little path, and collect a few rocks.  We had an astonishing amount of success.  According to the campground host/visitor’s center expert, the park generally gets 8 inches of rain a year.  They had received four inches the previous week.  All kinds of things had washed down out of the mountains to the trail for easy access.  After our walk, we returned to the campsite and had dinner, with the swarms of bugs.  They were worse than the previous day, and we were literally covered in gnats and fruit flies.  Since Vivian is unequipped to fight them off effectively, she was very upset, and spent a large part of the evening in tears.  It took me a little while to realize that her temperature was back, and seemed very high.  It was over 104.  After a series of calls to nurses and doctors, with both the insurance company and her pediatrician back home, we again found ourselves back at the Walmart in Deming buying up Tylenol to rotate with the Motrin, and Powerade to ward off dehydration.   We were having a hard time finding something and I had to go speak to a store employee.  If someone sees me on people of Walmart, have mercy.  I literally had chunks of baby food hanging off the front of my t-shirt, and I looked every bit the part of a person who had spent the previous night in a tent, a few hours digging in the dirt and warding off swarms of bugs, and I was holding a baby  dressed only in a diaper (she blew out her outfit in a horrific diarrhea incident).  It was not a pretty sight, and I don’t blame the store employee for looking like she wished that I would leave her alone.  In fact, she directed me to an area, said she’d seen the product I was looking for “somewhere around here earlier,” and promptly disappeared. 
Hanging out at camp.

A crazy looking grasshopper we came across on our walk.
After getting to bed late again that night we woke up early enough the next morning, with a seemingly cured baby, to decide to hike up one of the mountainsides in search of agates and thunder eggs, which were allegedly in abundance in the park.  Justin carried Vivian.  We only made it about halfway up the trail before we arrived at a large outcropping of rock, and the rest of the trail appeared to be completely washed out.  Justin got very anxious at the top about making it back down the steep descent with Vivian on his back, and decided to leave me up there to my own devices while he started inching back down on his own.  He made it about three feet before he had an encounter with a cactus.  I stayed up there and gathered my entire quota of 15lbs. of rocks, and probably half of Justin’s.  I had an equally interesting time descending the mountainside carrying an overstuffed bag loaded down with my finds.  I found one cactus spine in my side, and another one in my leg later on that evening.

After that we packed up camp, I took advantage of the park’s very clean, warm showers, and we left the park and began our drive to Carlsbad Caverns, where we planned on camping at a nearby state park and attending the bat flight that night.  As we were driving we saw signs for the White Sands Missile Testing Facility, and decided to detour over to check out their missile display and museum.  We agreed to make it a quick visit.  We got Vivian out of her car seat.  She was running another fever.  The pediatrician I had spoken to the night before said that should her fever continue that we would need to find a doctor who could see her.  After a brief call to Tricare, they confirmed that we could in fact take her to be seen at the health clinic on base.  We never made it to the museum, and only saw the missile display from the parking lot, but I saw much more of the base and health clinic than I ever supposed that I would.  The good news is that an hour later we were back on the road, armed with a diagnosis of an ear infection, and a bottle of Amoxicillin, issued to us from their dispensary.  Super convenient.  Although it was also super embarrassing since Vivian was covered in bug bites from her stay at Rockhound State Park, which initially freaked out the doctor since the majority of the bites were all over her scalp.  This kid really needs to start growing more hair.

We left base and ended up stopping for a brief look around the White Sands National Monument.  It is absolutely spectacular, and some day, when it isn’t blazing hot outside, we would love to return to play on the dunes.  

A lizard adapted to the white sands.

The sunlight reflecting off the white sands made it so bright you couldn't really look around without squinting.

Me, running to the top of a dune.

Shortly after this picture was taken I watched a humming bird land on a guys hand in the parking lot.  When the man's wife returned from the bathroom a few minutes later he had me come over and describe what I saw because she thought he was making it up.  It was super weird.  It just landed there and rested for a second and then flew off again.
Our visit at the health clinic had put us a little behind schedule, and we started to realize that we were going to be really pushing our luck to make it to the bat flight on time.  We had to cancel our plans to stop and set up camp at the state park first, and rush straight to the caverns.  We came careening into the parking lot a minute or two before the program was scheduled to start.  There was a delay while we prepared Vivian a bottle to keep her quiet during the program, and addressed another diarrhea incident.  We came into the program several minutes after it started, but before any bats had exited the cavern.  There was no photography of any kind allowed during the bat flight, and the rangers repeatedly stressed that it was very important to stay as quiet as possible as the bats are exiting the cavern.  This became an impossible task for us, as Vivian finished her bottle in record time and immediately began shouting and pointing at the bats and blowing raspberries with her lips. The woman behind us had to cover her mouth to stifle her laughter every time there was another outburst from Vivian.  Her husband was furious, and mouthed to me to “get her out of here.”  Despite Cranky behind us, and Vivian’s volume, the bat flight was still amazing.  (Although I did feel like I had to exit the amphitheater area with her, and view from a distance for part of it.)  The sheer number of flying rodents flooding out of the cavern (approximately 500,000) was astonishing, and as it turns out, the whole event was rather smelly.  Something that I hadn’t quite anticipated. 

After the bat flight we returned to our car and began our drive back to the state park, but a crazy wind had started, the sky was threatening rain, and it was well after dark.  We again bailed on another night of camping, and after calling Best Western and harassing the poor woman doing reservations, we found a room with a decent rate in Roswell.  It was 90 minutes away, but in the same direction we were headed the next morning, so off we went to Roswell.

We slept in so late that morning that we slept all the way through the free breakfast, and woke up with just enough time for quick showers, and packing before checkout.  We left Roswell, eager to be back on the road, but 20 miles or so out of town realized we had an eighth of a tank of gas left, and 100 miles stretching out in front of us before the next gas station.  We returned to Roswell for gas, and then embarked on a super long, super boring drive across the nothingness of Eastern New Mexico.  We finally arrived in Santa Fe, checked into the time share there, and spent an evening doing some much needed relaxing.

The drive to Santa Fe was hours of this view.
The next morning we woke up, and Vivian had broken out in a little rash on her stomach.  It didn’t seem all that bad, and she wasn’t acting bothered by it at all, so we set out for Tent Rocks National Monument.  Tent Rocks is beautiful, and for the best views you have to travel through a very narrow slot canyon.  Much to our annoyance this slot canyon is too narrow to pass people in there, and some very out-of-shape people, who didn't appear to know anything about hiking (there was a lady trying to push a stroller) seemed to find this particular hike enticing.  It was super slow going, and the large groups of mostly unsupervised school children were also a test in patience.  One that I was failing.  We finally made it into the most scenic part of the hike, and the more difficult portion, where we realized that many of those people struggling earlier on just gave up and turned back.  The views from the top of the ridge were amazing, and made the whole experience worthwhile. 

We backed up a whole line of people behind us to take this picture.  We waited forever to go through this part because of all the people coming down first.  It was definitely too narrow to pass in this area.

She was very happy about the chance to actually touch the canyon walls.

Since the walls of the canyon are not nearly as smooth as they look this pose turned out to be kind of uncomfortable on the hands.

Justin loves this sign.
After Tent Rocks we drove for about an hour to Los Alamos, home of the Manhattan Project.  We toured a museum there about the project, and watched a video.  As always, Vivian provided intermittent shouts of enthusiasm, and she inexplicably broke into laughter over the photos of the first test bomb being detonated.  Thankfully, no one else in the theater seemed to mind.

When we finally returned to the timeshare we noticed that the rash had start to spread to her legs, and when I lifted her shirt it was terrible.  Large red welt looking things had developed all over her chest, back, and were starting to creep out onto her limbs and neck.  After another call with the pediatrician we were advised to make yet another medicine run for Benadryl, and find an urgent care facility the next day.  She has apparently developed an allergy to Penicillin.  We had hoped to leave Santa Fe very early that morning, but instead Justin and Vivian spent the morning at the urgent care while I stayed back and repacked.  We barely made checkout time, and spent another hour or so hanging out at the Walmart pharmacy filling new prescriptions.  
Hanging out waiting for Dad to get off the phone with the pediatrician and give us the verdict.

The lighting wasn't the best, but it looked pretty bad, and covered her entire trunk.

We discovered that she loves corn on the cob.
We had hoped to arrive in Great Sand Dunes National Park in Colorado early, since everything we read online said that the campground there fills up very quickly.  It turns out, that’s true.  We arrived around 6pm, and the ranger at the gate suggested a couple of alternate locations.  There was one just a few miles away, and San Luis Lake State Park, 10 miles down the road.  We decided to skip the closer park and go straight out to the lake.  We ended up being so glad that we stayed there.  First, there is a bear problem in the park.  There are no bears at the lake.  I consider this to be a HUGE plus.  Second, the park was relatively empty.  Although the sites were small, and very close together, we had only one neighbor several sites down the first night.  Third, the lake itself was beautiful.  It was teeming with interesting birds that fascinated Vivian, and the banks of the lake were literally moving with thousands of tiny little frogs the size of my thumbnail and smaller.  We tried to hurry and set up camp, but ran into trouble with our broken tent pole.  One of the now loose pieces was missing the little metal band that holds the two tent poles together.  After a long period of deliberation, we were able to find a remedy of sorts by using a small green, flexy twig to connect the two pieces of pole, and then reinforce the area by using one of my hairbands to strap an extra tent stake to serve as a crude splint.  It wasn’t pretty, but it worked. 
The Rio Grande on our drive into Colorado
Obviously still not perfect, but it did hold.  I kicked myself later for not thinking to use a bobby pin instead of the twig, since it would have been much sturdier.  Once it was in place I wasn't willing to mess with it though.
We then returned to the park to see a few overlooks of the dunes, and wade through the freezing cold waters of Medano Creek, that runs in front of the dunes and must be crossed in order to reach them.  

She didn't like walking on the sand, so this whole idea of her strolling along next to me was pretty short-lived.

The only place we've seen a prettier sunset was Organ Pipe Cactus National Monument
When we returned to our campsite, we discovered that the big downside to the lake is the swarms of mosquitoes that emerge in the evening.   At least the bug repellant worked on them.  We left early the next morning and set out to hike the dunes.  My feet were frozen by the time we got across the creek, but everything we read said that the temperature of the sands can reach 150 degrees, even on an 80 degree afternoon. 

Hiking the dunes gave me flashbacks of marching in sand at basic training.  It’s miserable and exhausting.   By the time we reached the top of the first set of dunes I told Justin that was far enough, but he prodded us on to the second highest dune in the park/North America.  (The highest dune is clear out on the end of the dune field, and frankly doesn’t look worth the effort.)  I’m glad that he did.  The views were spectacular, and coming back down the dunes is actually kind of fun.  Although, it seems that we will never be entirely rid of the sand from the experience.  
Hard to say here who is more excited about getting started.

Okay, definitely Vivian.

Halfway up the first dune and I was already taking a break.

Waiting at the top of the dune for me to stop using the camera as an excuse to prolong my break.

At least I ended ahead of them, although granted I also wasn't carrying quite the same load.

From on top of the first dune.  First of many.

This is where I told Justin I was happy not continuing forward, but he wasn't having it.

This guy scared me half to death when it flew over and first landed on the front of my shirt before I brushed it off  to my leg, in one of those wild and unflattering moments of flailing hands and panic.

On top of the second highest dune in North America.  Vivian didn't seem really taken with the guy who offered to snap this picture.  Don't mind the socks.  My husband already makes fun of me every time I wear these pants and socks together.

The dune field that continued on in front of us.  We didn't feel a need to go farther, thankfully.

After sliding down a dune with her dad.  She was squealing and laughing the whole time.

That tiny speck is my people.

When we finished and took our shoes off to cross back over the creek in the late morning we were shocked at how hot the sand felt on our feet, and even more shocked at the lukewarm water running through the creek bed.  We wanted to stop and let Vivian play around in it, but we needed to get back for lunch, and get her down for a nap…which never happened.
During lunch we took our first trip out to the lake.

These are the little frogs that were everywhere out there.

Vivian was captivated by the birds.

Watching the frogs.

Just taking it all in.

The dune field off in the distance.
We returned to the park in the late afternoon to let Vivian play in the creek.  We had envisioned her wading in it.  She was not satisfied with merely wading in the creek, she chose to turn it into a swim.  She loved it.  The water was bathtub temperature, and this late in the summer ran at the perfect depth for someone her size.  We spent a decent amount of time there, not as long as she would have liked, but we needed to leave before the water temperature started dropping and the mosquitoes came out to join her. 
Already fighting to sit down.

She won that fight pretty quickly.

Trying to bury herself in the mud the way we had buried her legs in the sand on the dunes earlier in the day.

With our naked wet baby on the way back to camp.
By the time we got back to camp it was starting to sprinkle.  By the time we were done with dinner it was raining pretty hard, and showing no signs of letting up.  We climbed in our tent a little before sunset only to discover that Justin was right, I was wrong, the tent was leaking.  The sleeping bags miraculously still seemed mostly dry.  The floor of the tent had areas of standing water.  We ended up identifying a major leaking area above the bed, and felt that if nothing else could be done, we at least needed to address that spot.  After some consideration, I sewed a diaper to the ceiling of the tent using a sewing kit that I picked up at that first hotel we stayed in back in Blanding.  It actually helped, and we stayed dry all night.  The same cannot be said for our belongings.  We woke up the next morning to pools of water all over the floor, and stumbled out of our tent into a foggy morning to stare at our two new neighbors who had arrived in the middle of the night.  One in particular had made a high volume arrival.  It was a little family with two kids.  The kids weren’t the problem.  The mother woke us up yelling at the kids to be quiet so that they didn’t wake up the people who were trying to sleep.  Sage advice, too bad the lady dispensing it hadn’t bothered to take it to heart. 
We walked out to the lake that morning to wait for the sun to burn off the fog so we could dry our stuff out.
Justin and I were very amused watching our new neighbors.  We referred to them as the REI couple, since they appeared to have little to no camping experience, but were dressed as though they had just stepped from the pages of an REI magazine.  The mother reprimanded both of her children (Nova (female), and Sagan (male)…initially we had wondered if they are from Utah) for touching the dirt, apparently not realizing that camping usually takes place outside.  Shortly thereafter, she stared in shock as I shouted at Vivian to stop eating, and hollered over to Justin that she had just consumed half a rabbit pellet.  Very gross.

It took us a couple of hours to get camp cleaned up.  Everything had to be pulled from the sopping wet tent and laid out to dry.  We went back and forth about what to do with the tent itself, and then finally after surveying a tent with standing water and sand in the bottom, a broken pole, and a diaper sewn to the ceiling, we decided it was time for us to part company.  It’s over a decade old, and we were already talking about getting an upgrade.  We finally decide to leave it behind in the campground dumpster.  It had definitely seen it’s day. 

Again, we were off to a late start, but we enthusiastically blasted across Colorado to Black Canyon of the Gunnison National Park.  We stopped at the visitor’s center, ate lunch, drove the south rim trail, visited some overlooks, and took way too much time doing all of that.  By the time we got back on the road for the 6 hour drive home it was very late.  
This canyon is deeper and more narrow than the Grand Canyon, and frankly more impressive.

From the Painted Wall overlook

Looking every bit the part of a family at the end of a camping trip/10-day road trip.

The day before her 1st birthday, this was Vivian's 12th National Park.  I don't think we'll be able to maintain that average for her second year.
We finally pulled in after 1am.  Even Vivian let out a squeal of delight when she realized where this latest drive had landed us.  The trip was a total fiasco at times, but if it’s not a good time, it’s a good story, and as Justin remarked “who else out there can say they’ve slept in a tent with a diaper sewn to the roof?”  Probably just us.