I don't believe in boring people. Even simple people are too complex to be truly boring, which is not to say that they can't bore me. It's all just a matter of whether or not a person is willing to share the things about them that are interesting. Although I have referred to a particular couple I know as chloroform, the reality is that if they'd ever break past the incessant mindless chit-chat, I'm pretty sure that there is some substance there. I suppose it's possible that I'm giving them too much credit, but I have convinced myself that even the dullest people I know have the potential to be fascinating, if they'd just engage in a bit more self-gossip. After all, the most interesting people I know shamelessly divulge an excess of information about themselves.
I've noticed lately that there are people I know that have to think I'm boring. Perhaps it's that I don't care enough to ask them about their lives, and I don't particularly want to share anything about mine that has created this boring vibe, but either way, I feel bored by myself when I'm in their company. Part of me wants to figure out how to overcome it, and part of me just doesn't care.
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Yeah, even when you're not a boring person, if you are the one having to carry the weight of the conversation every time, eventually you just collapse under the burden and resign yourself to boring that person as much as they bore you.
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